Another beautiful day in New Paltz....
I really didn't want to talk about my relationship troubles on here...but I wouldn't be truthful to myself if I didn't because the way I say somethings and act sometimes is a direct result of my relationship woes!!!
I am BITTER! I am the first to admit!
After the things I've been through in the last year, I've come to the conclusion--just because you're in love with a person doesn't mean you are meant to be together! (dont get it confused with MEANT TO BE!!!..thats a different story)
My breakup was suppose to be a BREAK!! Most know the term...the DREADED term! We both needed some space...I guess!
After months of being broken up...I'm such a better person because I've learned to love myself so much more. To change for me and no one else. To be more independent. Not to say I wasn't a great person before...lol!!! But I'm better now!!! :)
This BREAK was necessary...and I had to realize when my friend wrote a note on his facebook...and i loved this line "I had to realize that in order to grow together you must learn to grow individually."
That line was my inspiration for today's blog!
Sometimes we have to grow and learn more about ourselves and more importantly LOVE ourselves a little more before we engage in a relationship. Sometimes beyond our control we put our significant other over ourselves. I can attest to that!
YOU HAVE TO BE YOU'RE MAIN PRIORITY. Besides GOD...ofcourse!
xoxo Lana Alexis
p.s. if its meant to be...it will be! Have Faith!
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You just better preach, sista! But yeah I heard a line the other day that really spoke to me it said,"I'ld be a fool to marry you because you love me. Any old body can love you. I need someone who's gonna take care of me!" Thats crazy but when you really think about it, it is OH SO TRUE!
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